Tina, Sophie and Emma,
I send you all my love and want you to know that yesterday was such a moving, beautiful, happy, sad, amazing experience.
I feel so lucky to have known Mark. I can still remember him dropping you off at school, leaving you with a special thought, a wink in his eye and love in his heart. My thoughts are with all of you.
Joan Moody, teacher/friend, 08.04.14
I've known Mark and the staff at N+S since I took over editing the Zoo Society's magazine in 2001. Two particular memories stand out for me: I couldn't attend when Antiques Roadshow came to town in 2003 but watched with interest when the Cleveland episodes aired that fall. One of the appraisals was a photograph brought in by a man all dressed in black who didn't seem to know that he had an original photo by Margaret Bourke-White. He seemed very interested in learning more (really, Mark??). I never did ask him about being on camera. The other memory is of the last time I talked with Mark. Late in 2013, we had finished another year of Zoo Society publications and I called to say thanks to the staff. Although I rarely spoke to Mark directly, I did that day. For once, he reserved his sarcasm and was genuinely appreciative for thanks on behalf of his staff. I'm glad I called.
PS - the transcript of the Antiques Roadshow interview is here : http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/roadshow/archive/200202A11.html
Mary McMillan, Client, Cleveland Zoological Society, 08.03.14
Kevan and I appreciated the wonderful stories shared in memory of Mark today. Though we didn't know him as well as some, his larger than life personality always drew us to him; anxiously awaiting his next quip or pearl of wisdom which were always delivered with Mark's special brand of humor and offbeat sense of timing.
We found ourselves in Mark's presence mostly at meetings of our homeowners' association which were often held at the Katz/Schwartz stunning home. As he was co-president of the association we found ourselves often siding with Mark on key issues as he had a very persuasive way of presenting his point of view.
We will miss seeing his Range Rover coming down the street, always delivering a friendly smile and wave. Even in his absence, Mark still sets the bar for his exemplary way in which to show love and compassion for others.
JUDY GREENE AND KEVAN GREENE, NEIGHBORS, ADMIRERS, 08.03.14
I want to add briefly to Lee's words below. Lee and I wore black today in Mark's honor because of his love of black and white.
But let's always cherish his colorful use of language. He added the diverse colors of humor, wit, passion, and candor to our lives.
Peggy Zone Fisher, 08.03.14
Tina, Sophie and Emma,
You are such wonderful people and a beautiful legacy. I know you will continue to support one another and use your positive energy for good, helping others, as you always have. I feel lucky our paths have met up. You are true blessings for the world. Please know I am so sorry you must endure this pain and I'm here for you. I cherish the memories of our times together and long to have more.
Elisa Malinovitz (Eliasoph), 08.03.14
Peggy and I attended Mark's memorial celebration this morning and were reminded time and again how much we loved and admired Mark....and Tina. Fred Bidwell, Dave Bergholz, Greg Oznowich, Toby Lewis, Olivia Chartier, and Scott Chaikin spoke beautifully for all of us. "He filled the frame.....we experienced his loyalty and generosity.....he set the bar higher...perfectly imperfect....excellence without compromise.....uncompromisingly human....master of big fat ideas....always working toward smart.....master of the grand and little gesture.... underdog supporter....passion for social justice.....lived life with gusto, died with grace...." Mark supported me in all my campaigns for public office, but more than that, he and Tina always were, in his words, "all in." Although he and Tina always made the maximum possible contribution, he always did it in unforgettable pieces. A contribution of $3,690.80, followed weeks later by $2,459.75, followed by another equally odd and seemingly random amount; and always on his credit card so it was quick, efficient, and he could get his airline miles. As was said so well in the memorial service, Mark taught us to laugh louder, swear more, say what we think, and live without compromise. Mark, thank you for dazzling us with your life, love, example, and friendship.
Lee Fisher, 08.03.14
Mark and Tina were among the first couples we met prior to our arrival in Cleveland. Our first meeting was a formal interview dinner, where Mark and Tina were one couple among five, who had assembled to interview candidates for the position of Chief Curator at the Cleveland Museum of Art. We were seated with Mark and Tina. They were genuine, curious, smart, and clearly committed to seeing the museum succeed. For them, support of the museum was driven not by social status, but by a conviction that art mattered. What I remember most from that first encounter with Mark was how refreshingly open, bombastic, and ambitious he was as a trustee. Mark believed in the power of art to open our eyes to the world around us, he believed that Cleveland could distinguish itself through its cultural organizations, and he and Tina used their philanthropy to make the things they cared about happen. Mark was also a believer in the importance of passion and vision, a supporter of living artists, and curious about the world. Mark took an interest in you, your work, your family, he was fully engaged. There was nothing half-assed about Mark. He would call you on it if he felt you were dialing it in, because he believed that if something was worth doing, you should give it everything you had. He felt the same way about organizations. Mark was demanding in the best possible way. We will miss Mark, and will we carry his passions and convictions out into the world, holding closely the lessons he taught us.
Griffith and Amanda Mann, 08.03.14
My favorite memories of Mark are centered on when he would tease me about all things Jewish. That was part of the way he showed his love. But he took a special joy, it seemed, when he could mock some religious observance that I followed.
Years ago, we were flying to New York on a 6:30 am flight and had been upgraded to first class. The flight attendants set about serving the meal. Mark was enjoying a mimosa and a fluffy mini croissant when they brought my kosher meal -- a frozen salami sandwich. He nearly choked from laughing so hard.
More than 20 years later, when we hadn't seen each other for a long time, I was standing in the Continental lounge at Hopkins. As the bartender was asking for my order, a voice came over my shoulder, "He's having a frozen deli sandwich." It was wonderful to see him.
Robert Lakin, Friend, admirer, butt of Mark's joking, 08.02.14
When I met Mark for my interview, I experienced his bold and direct approach for the very first time. I knew immediately that this wasn’t going to be any “ordinary” job.
After 9 years of working together, I’ve seen him in a room as the center of attention at his best—and when his Apple devices were not cooperating—at his worst. Sometimes I wonder why we put up with each other, but then I realize we were always fighting for the best solution. He was always willing to go to the mat for his ideas. I would inevitably tap out, but each time we learned a little more from each other and eventually we started to wrestle problems together. Underneath the ass aches was a lot of respect. He told me we made a good team because “I remember everything, and Shawn forgets everything.”
The only way I can describe losing Mark is like living in a world without gravity. He was a force in every room he entered. His energy and passion was palpable and constant. I can’t believe he’s really gone. Somehow we will move forward and find a new way of doing things in this world without gravity.
I’m going to miss our lunches at Slymans, and even our occasional “come to Jesus” meetings. Thanks for making the last 9 years extraordinary.
Shawn Beatty, 07.30.14
Because Mark was a lover of the arts, I was introduced to the Cleveland Film Festival. His generosity allowed my husband and me to go from mainstream Hollywood flicks to independent, subtitled, Chinese movies about a man and his cow. For this…I will always remember and be grateful to Mark.
Patty Fracker, 07.30.14